2017年5月26日

苦行 The hardship

「うるさいよ」は、子供には禁句だと思ってたが、
もはや、そんな事は、言ってられないほど、とにかく、しゃべる。
おしゃべりの総量もさることながら、
バリエーション、相手への要求、など、女子のおしゃべりを、聞いているのは、
苦行である。
ところが、女子にとっては、そのおしゃべりを、我慢するのが、
苦行なのだ。
もうしばらく、母と娘の攻防戦は、続きそうです。
それにしても、ナノカが黙ってる間の、バスの静けさには、驚いた。
どれだけ、喋ってたんだ、、、(叫んだり、の迷惑行為はしてませんが)

"Shut up!" is NG word for kids, I had been thought.
But now I cannot help using the words.
It was hardship for me to listen to her endless variety of talks
but for her it was hardship to keep her mouth shut.
We are going to have conflicts for a while.

 One day on the bus, she had kept talking and asking for my answers. I said to her "Mommy was not in a good condition today and cannot answer all the questions,,,"
She was not feeling good about my words and said, "You meant I was noisy? I could make silence once you said, 'Stop!'"
Then she became quiet.
In about three minutes, she seemed to be uneasy, but she kept quiet because of her pride. I was just surprised how quiet in the bus when my daughter shut her mouth.
After getting off the bus, she said, saying "Not stop" starts chatting again and it will never stop even saying "stop!" 

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