2012年9月29日

Best dresser ベストドレッサー?

After she got 1 year old, I let her choose her clothing to wear every day. She picked up whatever her hands touched, 1歳ぐらいから、ナノカに服を選ばせている。といっても、ナノカは目の前にあるもので、手の側にあるのを、適当につまんで「こえ」と言うので、
So I led her what to choose in facet, thinking of combination of clothings.上を選んだ後は、組み合わせを考えてこちらが下の服を用意して、「これ?」というと「こえ!」と、さも自分で選んだかのように、簡単に誘導されていた。
Recently she chooses really by herself. One day she chose summer dress in a cool day, so I tried to stop her, but she never changed(she wanted to tie the ribbons on her back at that time)しかし、最近、すっかり意志が強くなった。夏の背中が開いたドレスを選んだので(後ろでリボンを結ぶのがブームなのだ)「ナノちゃん、それ寒いよ」と言っても、「こえー」と言って譲らないので、
So I asked her to wear something underneath. She chose bear T-shirts and stripe trouthers which were under fancy dress. I was not happy about it, but what can I do that?仕方なく、寒さ対策だけしようと、下にTシャツとズボンを着せる事にした。それも選ばせたら、すごい組み合わせになって、こっちはげんなり。
Around when Nano became 1 year old, I got to let Nano to choose her clothing every day. I do not know why I started it, but I guess it was just easy way to eocourage her changing clothing if she was a part of action. At first, she was just picking whatever her hand touched, and it was just celemonical action and I lead her what to pick up by putting clothing under her hand. Gradually she grew up and her will got stronger. Then now she has some favorite or mood what to wear on that time. She totally ignore the weather and she even chose two trouthers or two sockes. Once she chose something,  it is really hard to change her mind. I was thinking of respecting her will and lead her to achieve abilities to choose anything-clothing first, but life choice such as major and partners. It might be too beyond, but I just want her to be free and responsible girl to . But it is too much trouble every day about clothing, I now feel I should not make this custom this early...
一歳を過ぎた辺りから、服を着替える時に、「どれにする?」と自分で選ばせるようにして来た。なんで、そうし始めたか、はっきり覚えてないが、まず、私自身が優柔不断でナノの服を毎日選ぶのが面倒だった事と、結構、オシャレ好き(?)のナノカが服を意味もなく着替えたがったりするので、自分で最初から選ばせておけば、避けられるかなあ、と考えたのだろう。チビとはいえ、自分の意見や好みもどんどん出てくるだろうし、小さいうちから、なんでも自分で選び、ひいては、考える力につなげて欲しいと思ってたので(大げさ?そこまで意気込みがあった訳じゃないけど、、、)、なんとなく、選択をナノカにゆだねていったのかもしれない。我が家の経済状況と、そして価値観からして、子供の服に大金をつぎ込むつもりはないので、ナノカの服は「お下がり」「もらいもの」「古着」が多くを占め、私達が買うのは、1シーズンに1枚のいっちょうらと、必要なものを少し足すぐらいなのだが、お下がりとバーゲンパワーで、ナノカは現在まあまあ服を持っている。女の子だから、私も、服を選ぶのが楽しいし、自分が新しい服を着るより、ナノカが着た方が100倍かわいいし、ともすると、着せ替え人形にしたくなってしまうのだが、そこは、行き過ぎないように、我慢している。が、ナノカに選ばせると、かなりの確率で、失敗する(ズボンを2枚選んじゃったり、靴下二組選んじゃったり、ノースリーブを引っ張りだしたり)し、労力も要するので、ちょっと早く習慣づけ過ぎたかなあ、、、とも思う。まあ、ほら、いつかデザイナーとかになるなら、奇抜な組み合わせも、自由な発想も、ここがスタートかもしれないしねえ、、、

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